Kathmandu
Everyone lands in Thamel and never leaves it, and that’s the single biggest mistake tourists make in Kathmandu. It’s a fine base for the first night, chaotic and neon and full of trekking shops hawking gear of dubious authenticity, but treating it as the whole city means you miss the parts that actually explain why Kathmandu is worth the jet lag.
Neighbourhoods, ranked by what you’ll actually get out of them. Thamel is the backpacker hub, dense with rooftop bars and touts, and it’s also the thickest scam zone in the valley, so keep your guard up here more than anywhere else. Durbar Marg, the boulevard near the old Royal Palace, is quieter and better for a proper dinner. Patan, across the Bagmati in what’s technically its own city, has the best cafes, the artisan metalwork shops, and the Newari architecture Thamel can only gesture at. Boudha wraps around the great stupa and is where you go for Tibetan food and a slower pace. Bhaktapur, a medieval town about 90 minutes out by road, is the best-preserved streetscape in the valley and deserves a dedicated day, not a bolt-on to a Nagarkot run.
The squares nobody explains properly. Kathmandu, Patan, and Bhaktapur each have their own Durbar Square, each with its own separate ticket, because they were separate kingdoms before unification, not neighborhoods of one city. Kathmandu Durbar Square has been largely rebuilt since the 2015 earthquake, Kasthamandap included, though you’ll still spot scaffolding here and there. Patan’s is the best preserved of the three and, if you’re rationing time, the one to prioritize. Bhaktapur’s ticket runs highest at NPR 1,800-2,000 because it covers the whole town rather than a single plaza.
Swayambhunath, the Monkey Temple, sits west of the center on its hill; take the roughly 365 steps rather than looking for a shortcut. Boudhanath is the Tibetan Buddhist stupa and pilgrimage site, one of the largest in the world, and walking a slow kora around it beats rushing through with a checklist. Pashupatinath is the Hindu cremation temple on the river, and non-Hindus are kept out of the inner pagoda specifically, not the whole complex. You can and should view the cremation ghats from across the water. It’s not a photo op; it’s someone’s funeral.
Where to actually eat. Skip the tourist-trap menus in central Thamel unless you’re desperate. Dal bhat runs NPR 300-600 with refills, which locals call “dal bhat power 24 hour” for good reason since it’ll fuel a full day of walking. For real Newari food, chhoila and bara and the rest, get to Patan and eat at Newa Lahana or Honacha, NPR 500-1,200. Thakali Bhanchha Ghar in Thamel does a solid set meal if you don’t want to travel for dinner. Momos are sold on every second corner for NPR 150-300; Yangling in Boudha is a reliable bet.
Getting around. There’s no metro and no subway here, whatever generic guide told you otherwise. Taxis are supposed to run on the meter and functionally never do, so agree the fare before you get in, or use Pathao or InDrive and let the app set the price. Micro buses exist but are really a locals-only system that’s tough to navigate as a visitor. Dust and pollution are genuinely bad in March through May and through the dry winter, so pack a mask if that bothers you.
Get your visa on arrival at Tribhuvan airport, pay in clean USD, and expect a slow queue if you land during October or November peak season. A pre-filled arrival form online shaves real time off that wait. From the airport into Thamel is roughly 20-30 minutes over 6km, and the prepaid taxi counter inside the terminal fixes the price around NPR 700-800, which beats haggling with a curb tout who’ll quote double and grab your luggage before you’ve said yes.
Day trips that are worth the drive, and one that isn’t. Nagarkot, about 1.5 to 2 hours out, sits at 2,175m and delivers genuine Himalaya sunrise views on clear days, best October through November or March through April; it’s usually done as an overnight so you catch dawn without a predawn drive. Dhulikhel, similar distance to the east, is quieter with short hikes and its own mountain views if Nagarkot sounds too crowded. The Chandragiri Hills cable car is a faster payoff: about an hour to the base, then a ten-minute ride up for around $13 one-way or $23 return, temple and views included, and if you’ve only got a couple of days spare, this beats committing a full overnight to Nagarkot. What doesn’t work as a day trip is Pokhara, which needs six or seven hours by road or a 25-minute flight and deserves at least one or two nights of its own, and forget squeezing an Everest or Annapurna trek into your itinerary as a day excursion; those are multi-day commitments, full stop.
Timing your visit. October and November bring the clearest mountain views and the biggest festivals, alongside March and April before the pre-monsoon haze sets in. Monsoon season, June through September, means rain, occasional landslides, and leeches on the trekking trails, but also thinner crowds if that’s a fair trade for you. Winter is cold and clear early on, then grows hazy by January and February as the valley air stagnates. If you’re around for Dashain in September or October, expect roughly two weeks of festival atmosphere and a fair number of closed businesses, and Tihar in October or November brings the lights and a different kind of good chaos. Both are worth timing a trip around if you don’t mind some transport disruption.
One more thing worth saying plainly: load-shedding, the rolling power cuts that used to define Kathmandu trip reports, has been mostly solved since hydropower capacity expanded around 2016. You’ll get the odd outage and every hotel worth staying in has backup power, but don’t go in expecting nightly blackouts. That story is out of date.